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Our Founder, Author, blogger, Aqueelah Wheatley

Aqueelah is a full-time therapist that enjoys helping others through her writing. Her blogs consist of fun and helpful advice, a variety of opinions, psychoeducation, and a good bit of humor

We all have stories inside of us. Some are happy, others are sad. But, like everything else in life, we have the ability to change them. What we do with our stories is up to us. In this blog post, we are going to explore the concept of letting go. What is it? Why is it important? And, most importantly, what are the steps we need to take in order to let go of the past and start fresh with the present? We all have baggage from our past. Sometimes it's difficult to let go of the things that have hurt us. But, if we are willing to take the time to explore and understand our stories, we can start to let go of the things that are no longer serving us. We are all capable of change. Let's start by exploring the idea of letting go, and then take the steps necessary to make it a reality in our lives.



1. Introduction


In this blog post, I would like to share with you my journey of self-discovery. I've been through a lot of different phases in my life and I've discovered that letting go is the key to happiness. I hope that by reading this post, you'll be able to understand and apply the lessons that I've learned.



2. Why did I decide to let go?


There are many reasons why someone might decide to let go of something. Maybe the person has grown tired of the situation, maybe they feel like they're not making any progress, or maybe they just don't feel like it's worth their time. In the end, it's up to the person to decide if they think the benefits of letting go outweigh the risks. There are always risks when anything is involved in life, whether it's a relationship, a job, or a hobby. But sometimes it's worth taking the risk in order to gain something else. For me, I decided to let go of my blog because I felt like it wasn't giving me the results I wanted it to. I'm not saying it was a bad blog, but I wanted to try something new.



3. How did letting go, go?


In the beginning, letting go was hard. I wanted to cling to the memories like they were my only friends in the world, but I knew it was for the best. I slowly began to realize that memories are like cobwebs- they hold us back from moving on.

The more I let go, the more space I had to explore and grow. I was able to see that I had been holding myself back for years and years. I had to let go of the past in order to move on to the future.



4. What were the main emotions I felt during the process?


There are many different emotions that go along with letting go. Sadness, anger, regret, and emptiness are just a few of the emotions that can surface during the process.

No matter how healthy or unhealthy the relationship was, it is always difficult to let go. We may be attached to the idea of holding on to something that no longer serves us. There are a few things to keep in mind when letting go. First, be honest with yourself about what it is that you're holding on to. Second, be prepared for the emotions that will surface. Finally, be patient. It may take some time for the emotions to dissipate, but they will eventually.



5. How has letting go changed me?


I remember the first time I let go. It was a difficult process but it has led me to some amazing things. Here are just a few of the things that have happened as a direct result of letting go. 1. I've become more patient. 2. I've become more organized. 3. I've become more creative. 4. I've become more efficient. 5. I've become more flexible. 6. I've become more disciplined. 7. I've become more forgiving. 8. I've become more optimistic. 9. I've become more confident. 10. I've become more loving. There are many benefits to letting go. The key is to start small and work your way up. Once you've begun to see the benefits, you'll be more eager to let go of the things that are no longer serving you.



6. Lessons I learned from letting go


It's been said that when you let go of something, you're actually letting go of who you were at that moment in time. You're transitioning into a new person, and you're starting fresh.

When I decided to let go of my previous job, it was a very difficult process. I was going through a lot of emotions and it was really tough to let go. In the end, I learned some valuable lessons which I want to share with you.



7. What would I do differently next time?


This was a toughie. There are so many things I would do differently next time. Some of them would be small, like taking the time to properly research a potential business partner before signing on the dotted line. Others would be more significant, like not investing all my money in a new business idea before fully understanding the market. It's been said that hindsight is 20/20 and that's definitely the case with business decisions. In fact, most of the time we don't even know what we don't know until after we've made a mistake. That's why it's so important to continuously learn and grow. The biggest lesson I learned from my journey is that I need to be more patient. I'm not saying that I won't ever take risks again, but I will be more thoughtful about it. I also need to be more flexible in my business plans and not be so rigid.



8. Final thoughts


I'm not sure where this journey will take me, but I know it will be an interesting one. I've learned a lot in the last few weeks, and I'm excited to see where the journey takes me next. I'm grateful for the opportunity to write this post and to have shared my thoughts with you. As always, I welcome any thoughts, feedback, or questions you may have.



9. Appendix: A list of resources to help you let go


There have been many times in my life where I've been faced with the decision to let go of something that's no longer serving me. Sometimes it's a relationship, other times it's a job, and sometimes it's something I've been holding onto for too long. The following are some resources that I've found helpful in letting go: -The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman -The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle -The 4-Hour Workweek by Timothy Ferriss -The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown I'm not saying that these books are all about letting go, but they all provide helpful insights and advice on how to deal with difficult situations. There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, so what works for me might not work for you. But I hope that after reading this list, you'll have a better idea of what resources and advice might work best for you in your own journey to self-discovery.



10. Conclusion


It's been a journey of self-discovery for me as I've let go of things I once thought were important. In the beginning, it was hard. I craved the approval of others, I wanted what they had, and I didn't want to be on my own. But eventually, I realized that being on my own provided me with more freedom, and I was able to do things I never thought possible. I'm not suggesting that you have to go through the same process as I have, but I am suggesting that you take some time for yourself and assess what's truly important to you. Once you've identified those things, it will be much easier to let them go.





We hope you enjoyed our blog post on letting go. We know that this can be a difficult process, but it is ultimately one that will lead to a much stronger and happier you. We highlighted five tips that will help you through this journey. We hope that you find the tips helpful and that you can apply them to your own life. Be well and happy, and thank you for reading!

After a breakup, it can be easy to feel lost and confused. It's natural to go through the five stages of grief, but it's important to remember that everyone experiences these emotions differently. Here are the five stages of grief after a breakup: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. It's important to remember that these stages will pass and that you will eventually reach acceptance. In the meantime, remember to keep your head up and stay positive. The best way to cope with the breakup is to take things one step at a time. There is no one-size-fits-all approach to healing from a breakup, but by following these five stages, you will be on your way to a healthy and positive outlook.



1. Denial


At first, you may feel like it's not really happening. You may try to convince yourself that your partner is simply having a bad day and will soon come around. You may try to rationalize the situation or convince yourself that it's not really over.

In the early stages of the breakup, you may be in denial. You may think that things will get better and that your partner will change their mind. You may think that it's not really over.

Eventually, you may reach the stage of bargaining. You may offer to do anything to make things work. You may try to convince your partner that you're the one that should be the one to go. You may offer to move out or to stay friends.

In the stage of bargaining, you may be trying to get your partner to change their mind. You may be trying to get them to change their mind about the breakup. You may be trying to get them to change their mind about you. Eventually, in the stage of depression, you may realize that bargaining is not going to work and that the breakup is really over. You may feel hopeless and helpless. You may feel like you'll never be able to get over the breakup.



2. Anger


Anger is the first stage of grief. You're mad at the world and everything in it. You may lash out at your ex and their new partner, or you may be bitter and resentful. You may feel like you can't go on. The second stage is bargaining. You're trying to get the best deal possible. You may try to make your ex come back to you, or you may try to get them to change their mind about ending the relationship. The third stage is depression. You're sad and you may feel hopeless. You may feel like you can't cope, or that you'll never be the same again. You may feel like you don't want to live. The fourth stage is acceptance. You've come to terms with the breakup and you may even be grateful for it. You may learn something new about yourself, or you may move on.



3. Bargaining


The first stage of grief is bargaining. You may feel like you have to do anything to get your ex back, even if it's just getting back together for the sake of the kids. This is a phase where you may try to convince your ex to get back together, or you may try to make him or her change their mind about leaving. In this stage, you may also feel like you're not good enough for your ex and that you'll never be good enough. You may also feel like you deserve to be hurt or that your ex deserved to leave.

After bargaining, you may enter the second stage, depression. This stage is characterized by a lack of motivation, a decrease in appetite, and a decrease in energy. You may also feel like you can't go on and that you don't want to live. The third stage is acceptance. In this stage, you may start to feel better and may even start to look forward to the future. You may also start to forgive your ex and start to see him or her in a different light.

The fourth stage is rebuilding. This is the stage where you start to focus on your own life and start to build a new relationship. You may start to focus on your own happiness and start to focus on the things you're grateful for. The fifth and final stage is moving on. In this stage, you may start to date and find someone new, or you may start to volunteer and help others. You may also start to think about your ex less and less.



4. Depression


After a breakup, many people experience a range of emotions including sadness, anger, and confusion. However, one of the longest and most difficult emotions to deal with is depression. Depression is a mood disorder in which people experience a persistent low mood, diminished interest or pleasure in activities, and diminished energy. It can be caused by a number of factors such as a break-up, a personal loss, or stress at work. If you're experiencing depression after a breakup, it's important to seek help. There are many effective treatments available, and you can get help from a therapist, counselor, or support group.



5. Acceptance


The 5 stages of grief after a breakup are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Denial is when you refuse to accept the breakup even though it's happening. You may try to convince yourself that it's not really happening or you may act like everything is still the same. Anger is when you feel resentment and anger towards the other person. You may lash out at them or blame them for the breakup. Bargaining is when you try to get the other person to change their mind or do something to make the breakup go away. You may offer them money or favors. Depression is when you feel sad and hopeless. You may have trouble sleeping, eat a lot, or avoid anything that reminds you of the person who broke your heart. Acceptance is when you finally let go and accept the breakup.





We hope you enjoyed our blog post on the 5 stages of grief after a breakup. We know that this is a difficult time for everyone involved, and our blog is here to provide some support and help you through this process. We understand that it can feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel, but with time, you will start to see the light at the end of the tunnel. We are here for you, and we will continue to support you through this difficult time. Thank you for reading.


Change is always a difficult thing, but it can also be a healthy one. In this post, we're going to explore how change can be beneficial to our mental and physical health. Change can be a catalyst for growth and development, and it can help us to learn new things. It can also be a way of refreshing our perspective on life. As we go through life, we tend to get used to the same things. This can lead to stagnation and, as a result, a lack of growth. Change can help us to break out of our comfort zones and explore new opportunities. It can also help us to become more creative and innovative. In short, change can be a source of growth and development, and it can be a source of happiness and joy. So why not embrace it?



1. Why change is necessary


Change can be uncomfortable but it's often necessary for businesses to grow and improve. Many people resist change because it feels unfamiliar or uncertain, but in the long run, change can be very healthy for a business. For example, if a business is stagnant, it may be time for a change in leadership or a change in the company's strategy. This can be a difficult decision but it's often the best thing for a business. On the other hand, if a business is growing too quickly, it may be time to hire more employees or to invest in new technology. Again, change can be difficult but it's often necessary for businesses to keep up with the competition.



2. How change can be healthy


It's strange how change can be healthy. We're constantly told that we need to grow and evolve, but some people can't handle it. They cling to the past, refusing to accept anything new. They refuse to let go of the things that make them happy. But change is good, and it's necessary. It's how we learn and grow. It's how we become better people. It's how we make the world a better place.



3. What to look for in a change


There is a lot of talk about change these days. Whether it's in our personal lives, at our workplaces, or even in the world around us. But what do we mean when we talk about change? When we talk about change, we usually mean something that's bad. We often hear about the negative effects of change, like layoffs, or moving to a new city. But is that always the case? In fact, change can be a good thing. It can be a way to grow and learn. It can help us to evolve, and to become better people.



4. How to implement change


There's something about change that can be both good and bad. It can be a catalyst for growth and new beginnings, or it can be a difficult process that can be overwhelming and frustrating. When it comes to your business, change can be a good thing. For example, if you're an entrepreneur and you're starting a new business, change is definitely a good thing. You're going to be working hard, and the process of starting a new business is going to be challenging. However, if you're working in a business that you already have, change can be bad. For example, if you're an accountant and you're working in a small business, you may not want to undergo a lot of change. You may want to stay the same because that's what you're used to. The key is to take the emotion out of the equation. If you're thinking about how change will affect you, you're going to be resistant to it. Instead, approach change with an open mind and be prepared to embrace it. After all, change is a natural part of life.



5. The benefits of change


Change is always something that we as humans seem to resist. Sure, we all want things to stay the same, but sometimes change is what we need in order to grow and learn. There are countless examples of this, but let's take a look at a few. In the business world, change can be seen in the way that businesses are now expanding into new markets or entering new industries. This is something that was once thought to be a risky move, but now it's seen as a necessary step in order to stay ahead of the competition. Another great example of change is in the way that people are now consuming content. In the past, people would read a book, listen to a song, or view a video once and then be done with it. But now, people are constantly engaging with content and that's a good thing. It's important to remember that change is always a good thing and that it can help us grow and learn. So, embrace change and see how it can benefit your life and business.



6. How change can be destructive


When change arrives, it's a natural reaction to resist it. We all tend to do this in one form or another. Whether it's resisting a new job, relationship, or home environment, change can be difficult. However, resisting change can actually be destructive. It can lead to anxiety, stress, and even depression. In fact, change is often seen as a source of pain. But that's not always the case. In fact, many people find that change is actually a source of growth. For example, when you move to a new city, you're forced to get out of your comfort zone. This can be a good thing or a bad thing, but it's always a source of growth. You learn new things, you meet new people, and you develop new skills. Similarly, when you start a new job, you're forced to learn new ways of working and to navigate a new system. This can be a source of growth or frustration, but it's always a source of change. So, when it comes to change, embrace it rather than resist it. Change can be a source of growth and happiness.



7. The warning signs of change going too far


Whenever something significant happens in our lives, it's natural to react in a variety of ways. Some of these reactions can be healthy, while others can be unhealthy. When it comes to change, it's important to be aware of the warning signs that change may be going too far. Here are four of the most common signs:

1. You're avoiding your old friends and family 2. You're withdrawing from your hobbies and activities 3. You're becoming more reclusive 4. You're developing new habits that you didn't have before

If you're experiencing any of these signs, it's time to take a step back and assess what's going on. If you can identify the source of the problem, you can start to make changes that will help you move forward in a healthy way.



8. How to handle change when it's difficult


Change can be difficult for anyone, but especially for those who are used to a certain routine. It can be difficult to adjust to new work hours, new coworkers, or a new home. It can be difficult to let go of old habits and embrace new ones. However, change is a natural part of life and it's important to remember that. Here are five tips to help you handle change when it's difficult: 1. Don't beat yourself up. Change is difficult, but it's not the end of the world. 2. Remember that change is a process and not an event. 3. Take things one step at a time. Don't try to tackle too much at once. 4. Stay positive. It's easy to get discouraged when change is tough, but it's important to remember that it will get easier with time. 5. Remind yourself that change is a good thing. It can lead to new opportunities and growth.



9. The importance of reflection


Businesses can be very successful and growth-oriented, but it's important to take a step back and reflect on what you're doing. Too often, businesses operate without a true plan for growth and if things start to change for the worse, they may not be able to adjust. This may mean making some tough decisions, such as shutting down a business segment, selling a business, or even going out of business altogether. If you're able to make these decisions early on, you'll be in a better position to weather any changes that come your way. It's also important to have a solid financial foundation in place. This will allow you to make the necessary changes and still stay afloat.



10. Acknowledging change when it's over


It can be tough when change is thrust upon us whether it's a new boss, a move to a new city, or a change in our personal lives. Sometimes it feels like we're being forced into something that we don't want and that's when the resistance begins. Resistance is natural and it's a way for us to protect ourselves. Resistance can be towards change in general, or it can be specific to the change we're experiencing. When resistance starts, it's important to remember that change is always good. Change means growth and growth is what leads to happiness. If we can embrace change and allow it to happen, then our journey will be much smoother.





We hope you enjoyed our blog post about how change can be healthy. In today's fast-paced society, many people feel like they need to keep up with the Joneses or else they'll be left behind. But is that really what's best for us? We believe that change can be a good thing, as it can help us grow and learn new things. If you're looking for ways to change your life for the better, read our blog post and apply the advice to your own situation. Thanks for reading, and we hope you have a great day!

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